Friday 20 March 2015

Why Are You With Your Partner?

We all get into relationships and marriages for different  reasons. There are people who believe in love and there are those who don't.

Some get into it due to family/societal pressure. Some to solve a pressing or long- lasting need,
some out of pity or guilt, some for financial benefits.

I pondered on all these yesterday and thought to bring it here.
Whether you are dating or married, come clean. Why are you with the man or woman you are with
right now? Feel free to go anonymous with your response.

Please note that the worst thing you can do to YOU is lie to yourself. You know most times the real truth lies in our deepest memory and no matter how hard we try to supress it, it keeps
lingering in our head and our conscience.

More often than not it even affects the way we treat our partner.
Most times talking about it and openly admitting it helps get a better perspective on what you have
gotten yourself into and could also bring a solution on how to handle your situation better if you are
not currently doing that. Am I making sense?

I kinda get the feeling I've started rambling. I hope you guys get the gist sha.... I'm giving you an opportunity to be honest with yourself. Or maybe you've never really thought about it.

Sometimes we live our life on auto pilot mode-even some of the most important decisions in our lives kinda get shoved into auto pilot mode.

So let's hear it. Abeg if you are going to come here and lie then don't bother droping any comment
that's why I said you can go anonymous so no one but you will know it's you. I'm not saying you
should go and confess to your partner oh.....just talk true to ya sef




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