Raunchy Photos In Relationships (READ UP)

Are you one of those who likes to take pictures of your privates and send to your partner or maybe you guys even get off on exchanging raunchy photos. Maybe that’s your thing.
He’s at class and you send him a photo that makes him loose concentration and cause him to rush home to you.

Or maybe you are in a long distance
relationship and the ones wey una show una self for Skype no reach so you decide to exchange nude and explicit photos. Which is fine but you ever worry that those photos could get into the wrong hands? I’ve heard some people say they don’t include their face in the picture….Oh well! But what of those of you who do. I mean some couples even take naked photos together, some make a home video of themselves doing 'it' Hian!!!

Okay, picture this- This dude has been dating this chic for a couple of months, somewhere in the middle of their relationship they discover they enjoy exchanging raunchy photos of each other. It makes the relationship spicier, interesting, that ‘never a dull moment’ kinda thing. Okay na, few months down the line girl meets rich guy who sweeps her off her feet with everything a girl could ever wish for. So she dumps Le Boo and moves on to the rich guy. Of course Le Boo is not happy about this and decides to revenge by spreading the nude photos of the chic on social media. Typical scenario isn’t it. Yet a lot of people still make the same mistake.

Ladies, do you know that most guys are not ashamed of being seen naked especially the.ones that are ‘packing’. So even if you decide to revenge, you’d just end up spreading more nude photos of yourself all over the internet. Or what else are you gonna do, have him killed??? Pffttt!!!
Technology has afforded us a lot of luxury and.convenience as well as a truck load of inconvenience and embarrassment. I’m not saying couples shouldn't feel free to express themselves which ever way they choose to in their relationship but ladies, you have more to loose. I think it’s safer when married couples do it. What crazy guy is going to spread naked photos of his wife and possibly the mother of his children all over social media? Maybe there are such crazy dudes sha…

I have this male friend who considers himself a ladies man. Well, I think he is and he’s also what you might call a confirmed bachelor.
Chics are always sending him raunchy photos of themselves. Some are kind to eyes some are out rightly disgusting. Some chics dey craze oh! Anyways, what’s your take on exchanging nude and raunchy photos with your partner?.Done it before? Still doing it? ‘fess up oh! And you can tell us how it has helped your relationship maybe some people might want to start to help save their relationship *runs away.

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RELATIONSHIP TALK WITH RAJ - “Girls, 10 Things You Shouldn’t Do When You Meet A New Guy”

Babes, 10 things you shouldn’t do when you meet a new guy .

Some Ladies today wonder why after a guy has shown interest in them or after 2/3 dates he disappears or doesn’t return their phone calls, text, whatsapp and bbm messages.
I have listed some of these reasons below


1) Don’t Take Your Friends Along When He Invites You on a Date :
Some Nigerian Ladies for some reason that is beyond me, take their friends on a date with a guy they just met.
I can attest to this because it has happened to me before. No positive outcome can come out of this but some of the negatives are:
(i) The guy will be turned off
(ii) He may start liking or prefer one for your friends to you
(iii) He will never get the opportunity to know you as much as he wants because of the 3rd wheel
(iv) He may think you don’t have a mind of your own
(v) He may turn you and your friends back

(2) Don’t Go To His House Unannounced :
One thing a man hates the most is for you to show up at his house unannounced or invited especially
when he just met you.
That’s a “NO NO” because he’ll just think you’re a stalker or a psycho and he’ll act out.. Some ladies out of emotions and lack of trust show up at a guys house, what they don’t know is they are pushing him away or giving him reasons to leave.

(3) Don’t Ask Him For Money :
Some Ladies meet a guy and in less than 2/3 weeks the demands start rolling in. Please pay for my hair, buy me birkin bag for my birthday, my rent is due, or plain & simply, I need money for handouts and assignments. Every guy would take off when they meet a Lady like this. They would say she’s opportunistic and compare her to the ladies who are not asking them
for a kobo or dime.

(4) Don’t Compare Him To Your Ex or Talk About Your Ex, Only If He Requests :
Some Ladies compare and contrast their new guy to their old one, not only in their mind but to his face
as well. They say things like my Ladi used to take me to TITO, ITEM 7, YUMMIES, you’re taking me to that EATRY i dont like, Jide bought me
Prada for my birthday last year you’re buying me Zara.. Guys hate being compared, it punctures their
Ego so allow him be the Boss and take you out,.don’t compare or dictate terms of dates or gifts.

(5) Don’t Be To Quick To Upload His Pictures on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter (Social Media) :
Ladies, you just met a guy, a new flame, the relationship is at its early stages, there’s still so much you don’t know about him why upload his pictures for the world to see?
The relationship may not even be defined yet.. By doing this, you’re giving people room to influence
and alter your infant relationship.
Also you don’t want to be like those people who have to cleanse their instagram and Facebook pages of a guys picture every 6 months because of a breakup.

(6) Don’t Wear See Through or Exposing Outfits on your First Date:
Guys are very Impulsive and instinctive by nature, by wearing a dress or gown that’s says “SEX” that’s all that will be on his mind and nothing else. He won’t want to hear anything about you anymore; your personality, your job, your family etc.
All he’ll be thinking about is how he’ll take you to his house or hotel room because you’ve sent him a signal saying you want sex.

(7) Don’t Bore Him With Your Family Issues:
Some ladies carry their personal or family problems out with them on dates, instead of making waves
and progress with their new guy, they talk about how their house got burnt last week, or how their friend always borrows money or clothes from them,
or how they hate their sisters or brothers.. All these are TMI (Too Much Information) Focus on him and
let him Focus on you.. Don’t allow extraneous variables creep in and take over your conversation

(8) Don’t Talk About Marriage or The Future:
The number one thing guys are scared of after God is Commitment or Marriage so if you just met a guy
and you’re already talking about marriage or children he is definitely going to take off and say you’re putting him under pressure and he can’t keep up.. Let him be the one to bring it up not you because he’ll say you’re desperate.

(9) Don’t Pry About His Pocket, Earnings or The Car He Drives or Similar Stuffs :

(10) Don’t Get Drunk on Your First Outing With Him:
Firstly Ladies, this is for your own safety a lot of ladies have been taken advantage of because they were intoxicated. You also don’t want to embarrass yourself and say or do things that you can’t defend or verify

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RELATIONSHIP TALKS WITH RAJ: BE CAREFUL OF WHAT YOU SHARE WITH YOUR LOVER

BE CAREFUL OF WHAT YOU SHARE WITH YOUR LOVER, Cos if you turn he/she to an EX, they would do anything to get back at you


Hello, there. You know, nobody dates or goes into a relationship with the hope that it wouldn't work out.
We go out on dates, in hopes of meeting the right one.

We go into relationships with high hopes that this person will remain in our life for a long time. But most of us don't take time to think about what
happens if it doesn't work out.
And we definitely don't think about what if we are the one that actually does the breaking up. Some people don't deal with break up's well,
especially if they are the "dumpee", it can make them do things, they are not capable of doing on a normal day.

Most people handle break up's dealing with the NORMAL emotions that come with breaking up.
We take the time we need to process our emotions, get over it, and move on. Some people can't do that! They set out to basically get revenge especially since the internet gives us so many ways to do so.

Revenge on an ex lover is not the best. All we see is post break up slander like 'he had a small one' or 'he couldn't keep it up' or 'one
minute man', a nude picture of an ex girlfriend disrespecting her and her family.

I am sure those people promised not to share them, so of course they are to blame for their actions. But this reminds me of that story that ends with
"you knew I was a snake when you picked me up."
So one should be careful of what they share with their lover because you may never know.

There is a thing called privacy and when two people are involved in private moments, it should
always be just that...PRIVATE.

As the legendary Rick Flair would say, "You can't unring a bell."
That image is going to be out there forever so think twice before you destroy someone's life (someone you probably still love) because you
were dumped.
You may get yourself in trouble to.

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