Made In Kogi State Urban City
You know that saying "What a man can do, a woman can do better"? Well I hear some chics are better players than men.
Quite often we hear gist about how some dude broke two ladies hearts when they both found out he was two-timing them. A dude having a side chic or several is no longer news but now ladies sef dey get side dudes.
I know it's probably always been in existence but from what I heard it's becoming more rampant and I hear babes are going about it indiscriminately.
A girl can have her main boyfriend and two side dudes or more sef! The main guy probably because she loves him and he is what she needs, the side dude probably to satisfy her needs in the sac, the side dude to satisfy her financial needs which is what she wants and then the ode who she doesn't send and calls only when she needs something.
Some chics can pull this off for months without either guy suspecting a thing. You could be reading this and be thinking "What on earth is Raj on about.....what is the big deal in a girl having two boyfriends????". Well it may not seem like a big deal to you probably 'cause you don dey do am tey tey...lool. But to some it's a big deal o!
So the purpose of this post is to take some heat off the fellas and point the torch at the ladies. So tell us ladies, how many boyfriends do you have now? You ever dated more than one guy at a time? Care to tell us why and what the experience was like.
This post is also for the purpose of gist....come on guys my aproko antenna is on full blast, I need gist. I'm having quite a mundane day at school today which is quite unusual....oya...give me gist abeg o. I promise I won't judge.
Feel free to go anonymous with your response. Fellas, if you have ever been played by a chic kindly share your story. Married women are welcome to share their stories too. And for those of you that will come here to drop judgmental comments.....You know you've done worse, you know you have......you, yes YOU!!!
Though Valentine day was not intended for romantic relationships, but over the years lovers have hijacked it as a day of celebrating
their love for one another and it seems it will forever remain so.
On valentine day, many people expects gifts from their lovers and maybe for the guy to take them out. (this is a Nigerian mentality though,
as many western and developed nations have surpassed this ”na man suppose take woman out” attitude).
But due to the harsh economic
condition and youth unemployment, valentine is sometimes not enjoyed by the poor and low income earners
Here are ways to go about the valentine day if u don’t have money or broke.
On that day, try to do something no matter how small. On that day, clean your house in a new way possibly, some romantic arrangement with
your lover’s pix or pix of both of you together, hanged/pasted in different places in your room.
Lets assume you have 500 Naira with you, you can buy meat #200, two cups of rice, where i stay its #40 per cup, tin tomatoes and fresh
one #90 and maggi #10 amounting to 400. Ask her to boil rice make stew with those foodstuffs that day. Allow her wear one of your T-shirts while she do the cooking then buy soft
drinks with the remaining #100.
Enjoy the meal together with laughter, teasing, and feeding of each other. Please compliment her cooking. If you are opportuned to have a tv/dvd watch some romantic movies or play music, If you
don’t have, play some party jamz with your phone so both of you can dance for some hours and thereafter play some heart touching cool
music (blues) like:
Forever – Paul Play
I swear – boyz to men
I swear – westlife
Don’t brake ma heart – Banky W
Because you loved me – Celine Dion.
After the music, sit together on your bed, look into her eyes, hold her hands and let her know how your world have not remained the same
since you met her, how you wish to see her grow old with you, how you cherish every moment you spend with her, that she owns your heart alone. Let her know that tomorrow
will be better than today, that you will pay her patience and love with hard work to give both of you a better future. Let her know its not by mr.
Bigg’s, shoprite, Tantalizers etc, but by what you truly feel down your heart and soul.
Retire to your bed late at night and spend the night the way you wish.
