Made In Kogi State Urban City
Earlier on, We posted 8 Signs Of A wife Material and here is the male version
You find such a guy and you begin to form for him? There must be
something wrong somewhere
How do you know he is an husband
material?
1. He calls you often and asks how
your day went – He does this in a
friendly manner. He doesn’t “act” it.
2. He visits you on sick bed and
perhaps sleeps there with you – This
implies that he is willing to accept your “ups” and your “downs” alike.
3. He loves your siblings as his own – He loves your siblings and plays with them care freely? Haba, think about it!
4. He talks to you with respect – He
doesn’t talk down on you even when you talk flippantly. He ignores without and scolds within with respect.
5. He doesn’t force sex on you – He
loves you so much that he won’t force anything you’re not comfortable with including premarital sex.
6. He gives you cash when you need it – He is responsible in your financial issues. He likes giving to you to the best of his capacity. He even tells you his whole salary . He loves you then.
7. He tells you the truth not minding
how you feel. He later pets you – He
doesn’t leave you to yourself. He scolds within but with love. He draws you back with one hand however. He doesn’t sleep with malice.
8. He talks of his future plans with you in it – He plans his future and includes you. That’s a major sign.
Ladies, this kind of guy exist. Don’t give up on us yet. Naija guys are all you need. At least, I am here
You can add more…
You know that saying "What a man can do, a woman can do better"? Well I hear some chics are better players than men.
Quite often we hear gist about how some dude broke two ladies hearts when they both found out he was two-timing them. A dude having a side chic or several is no longer news but now ladies sef dey get side dudes.
I know it's probably always been in existence but from what I heard it's becoming more rampant and I hear babes are going about it indiscriminately.
A girl can have her main boyfriend and two side dudes or more sef! The main guy probably because she loves him and he is what she needs, the side dude probably to satisfy her needs in the sac, the side dude to satisfy her financial needs which is what she wants and then the ode who she doesn't send and calls only when she needs something.
Some chics can pull this off for months without either guy suspecting a thing. You could be reading this and be thinking "What on earth is Raj on about.....what is the big deal in a girl having two boyfriends????". Well it may not seem like a big deal to you probably 'cause you don dey do am tey tey...lool. But to some it's a big deal o!
So the purpose of this post is to take some heat off the fellas and point the torch at the ladies. So tell us ladies, how many boyfriends do you have now? You ever dated more than one guy at a time? Care to tell us why and what the experience was like.
This post is also for the purpose of gist....come on guys my aproko antenna is on full blast, I need gist. I'm having quite a mundane day at school today which is quite unusual....oya...give me gist abeg o. I promise I won't judge.
Feel free to go anonymous with your response. Fellas, if you have ever been played by a chic kindly share your story. Married women are welcome to share their stories too. And for those of you that will come here to drop judgmental comments.....You know you've done worse, you know you have......you, yes YOU!!!
Incase You find such a girl and you begin to form for her or treat her anyhow, There must be something wrong with your brain
How do you know he is a
wife material?
1. She is never ready to have sex with
you until after marriage.
2. Spends more time in supporting your vision,and aligning hers to yours.
3. Ever ready to tell you the slightest
thing that happens to her, and allows you to handle it.
4. She spends more time developing her mind and rates value more than love.
5. Ever ready to look attractive and not sex,(NB: to avoid 1)
6. she ask for nothing even though she deserves and gets all.
7. Complements your actions and corrects you calmly.
8. Always ready to listen when you
scream, and screams when she is afraid.
9. Prays for your everyday
development,and closeness with God.
10. Talks about your family and how to solve their needs as if she’s got no family.
You can add more…
Valentine died for love, Romeo also died for love, Jack in titanic died for love, Samson in the Bible died for love, Greek heroes Hercules & Archilles died 4 love … & even Jesus Christ died for love! where are the women? Dnt buy any woman a Valentines treat this year until she gives you at least 5 names of women who died for love send this to all the males you know let’s boycott this valentine…. Today marks the spirit that makes us 1 to whom it may concern I love u.. #ChangeIsPossible…
1) many girls will get pregnant
2) there would be high demand for
condoms, infact i see lots of condoms on the floor and on the road on the 15th
3) the hospitals in nigeria would be filled with girls coming for pregnancy test.
4) mr biggs, tantilizers and other eatries would make lots on money.
5) the sun would shine.
6) the hospitals in nigeria would be filled with guys coming for HIV test, STD and other diseases.
7) shakara would end.
8 ) i see lots of night club and cinemas making lots of money.
9) many guys bank account would
become red as a result of too much
spending on valentine day, infact their money would have finished.
10) i see nepa bringing the light and APC and PDP members still campaigning for the election.
These are all i can see for now.
Signed- current minister of women
affairs.
A friend was telling me how she managed to get her money back from her ex-boyfriend after ages of delay. Let me start at the beginning.....
Girl meets boy, sparks fly, they date for a while. Boy asks for a loan, girl gives him the money with an agreement to pay back at a certain date. Deadline goes by, fast forward to a while later girl asks herself the 'He doesn't treat you badly, but does he treat you well enough question? Answer was glaring. Girl broke it off, time to get her money back and his stories could fill a book, she gives him more time but he always has a list of excuses as long as his arm.
Girl was clear out of ideas. As a last ditch effort she threatened to match over to his office bright and early the next day to announce at the top of her lungs how she was barely getting by, how she barely had two pennies to rub together, how her belly was sticking to her backbone for want of a good meal and so on. This had him running over, tail between legs to pay the 'gbese.'
Same girl met someone else later, three months
of friendship and dude was asking for a loan to
furnish his new apartment. Girl said a loud
'NO'! I have seen this same threat of office disgrace work like magic for someone else, so you might want to try it if you're finding it an uphill task getting your money back. Yes, I'll take my consulting fees now, cash please! Haha.
Do you have an oni gbese story to tell? Go ahead please, I'm all eyes.
..and if you did, would you guys still be together the next day?
1. Laughed or coughed so hard when
you’re on your period and more blood
comes out.
2. When you think nobody is looking, you readjust your bra, stick your hand in, pull ‘em up one at a time, straighten the band and straps, and add an extra squeeze to make sure everything is in its place.
3. Sit in a strange position when farting, so the fart bubble does not go up the …..you know. lipssealed
4. Open your mouth really wide while
putting mascara on.
5. When you don’t have a pad around
when you start your period…you fold up toilet paper, place in the middle of the underwear, struggle to pull up pants without dislodging the tissue, walk unnaturally so as not to mess up the paper….. Bloody shredded paper in your underwear when you get home.
6. Spending 30 minutes in front of the
mirror trying to get the perfect “cat eye.”
7. That amazing back/stomach scratch when you take your bra off after a long day. Best feeling ever.
8. Indiscriminately checking any fellow female for a “period stain” who asks,.regardless of who they are even your worst enemy or someone you’ve never met before.
9. The period check. When you’re sitting down, you “accidentally” drop something and while you’re bending over to pick it up, you sneak a peek between your legs to make sure you’re not leaking.
10. pooing in a toilet, squeezing their ass so the poop wont sound loud.
If you have more, feel free to add
yours..
A 16-year- old lover girl, identified as
Maureen (surname withheld) in Emede Isoko South Local Government Area of Delta State at the weekend, allegedly bathed her boyfriend with acid for cheating on her in the last three months of their relationship.
Reports said the girl, now in the police net in the community, upon interrogation by the police confessed to the crime, saying that her boyfriend violated the oath they took together.
It was reliably gathered that the victim was caught while making love to another girl right in a hotel within the community, a situation, when the suspect was informed about it, raced to the hotel where she attacked him with acid water. DSP Celestina Kalu, police public relations officer in the state, who confirmed the incident, disclosed that the suspect claimed she was angered by the violation
of their oath by the victim.
“I was determined to teach my boyfriend a lesson. So I went into my father’s car park where I picked an acid water to teach him a bitter lesson,” she said.
Sources said the acid water was allegedly poured on the victim’s joystick, a situation that may render him impotent. But DSP Kalu said the victim was admitted into a private hospital where he is currently being treated, adding that the suspect would be charged to court on completion of investigation.
